Family Mealtime:......It’s More than Just Eating....it develops and prospers the entire family......
Posted by Vishva News Reporter on March 31, 2009

 

Left to Right: Aksana, Avinash and mom Madhu Badoni work together to get a salad ready. Having children help out takes some of the stress off parents when it comes to getting a meal on the table.

THOSE WHO EAT TOGETHER STAYS TOGETHER IN ALL ASPECTS OF LIFE LIVING....

Many modern families (meaning families in industrialized societies) have two-fulltime-earning parents and children overloaded with school and after-school activities, homework, sports, piano lessons or other extracurricular activities such as a must TV, MSN, Facebook pals and cell phone chats as a daily route...

And such parents and their children struggle to find the time in their daily over-hectic schedules to properly plan and prepare their meals and also sit down together and enjoy a meals.

When something has to give, the family meal can be one of the first things to go, but letting family mealtime slip could have bigger consequences than most families realize



Research in United States of America and Canada over the past fifteen years has shown that families who regularly eat meals together as a life priority enjoy many life welfare and prospering benefits including the following major benefits :

-    Any time you sit down and eat together with your family, whether it is breakfast, and/or lunch, and/or dinner, there are measurable benefits for all family members and especially children.
-   Establish healthy nutritional behaviours and improve overall diet quality for children and parents too;
-    Help children form positive attitudes about food and create fond memories that will last a lifetime;.
-   Children perform better in school, tend to be happier, and have a decreased risk of substance abuse......

To continue reading the above research documentation on this life-knowledge-sharing PVAF website....please click on the next line......and with this knowledge prosper with health in the hectic wealth-focused lifestyle to even truly enjoy your wealth....because without health wealth will mean very little in life......



 
 Family Mealtime:
It’s More than Just Eating....


Edmonton Journal: March 18,  2009:  By Debbie Olsen

With afterschool activities, homework, sports, and hectic work schedules for parents, it’s easy to understand why many modern families struggle to find the time to sit down together and enjoy a nutritious meal.

When something has to give, the family meal can be one of the first things to go, but letting family mealtime slip could have bigger consequences than most families realize.

Research over the past fifteen years has shown that families who regularly eat meals together enjoy better nutrition and are likely to decrease the risk of unhealthy weight gain. “Family meals have the potential to establish healthy nutritional behaviours and improve overall diet quality,” said Dr. Sarah Woodruff, an assistant professor at Wilfrid Laurier University who published several recent Canadian studies related to family meals and dietary quality.

“Any time you sit down and eat together with your family, whether it is breakfast, lunch, and/or dinner, there are measurable benefits.” Perhaps even more surprising, research in the United States has shown that children who regularly enjoy family meals perform better in school, tend to be happier, and have a decreased risk of substance abuse. It seems that one of the best ways to stay close to your children is to eat with them.

This research has encouraged many families to make an effort to sit down and enjoy meals together more often.

For some families that means slowing things down and getting back to basics – you could call them slow foodies. Other families simply work to find a way to fit family meal times back into their hectic schedules.

For the past year, the Badoni family has been using the slow food approach to family meal time. With two children involved in sports and other after school activities it was a challenge to sit down together and enjoy a family meal. The solution they chose was to eat a little later on nights when someone has a game or an afterschool event. They typically enjoy a healthy snack and sit down together as a family after the game or activity. “We used to rush to eat,” explained Madhu Badoni.

 “We’d often eat at the counter in our kitchen, but in the last year we’ve changed and we eat around the dinner table instead. The entire dynamic has changed. We’re eating better and having conversations with our children that we never had the time for before. It’s something we all look forward to.”

Other busy families use a different approach to fit in family meal times. Instead of slowing things down, they plan ahead for quicker meals that fit into their lifestyle.



“We really have to work together and plan ahead to make family meal times successful,” said Dana Edmundson, a busy mother of four school aged children. “Our children are involved in gymnastics, basketball, indoor soccer and two different youth groups. Dinnertime is a chance to catch our breath and talk to our kids, before we head out the door to the next activity.”

Whether you are a single parent, are two working parents or simply have a family schedule filled with sports, piano lessons or other extracurricular activities, finding the time to enjoy a healthy meal together should be a priority.

Here are some simple strategies to help make it happen.

• Plan Ahead – Menu planning helps reduce the stress associated with getting dinner on the table and saves you time and money. Be sure to plan menus that include items from each of the four major food groups in Canada’s Food Guide to Healthy Eating.

• Make it a Team Effort – It is important to involve everyone • Prepare Meals in Advance – Whether you make extra meals on weekends and freeze them for later or prepare a crock pot meal in the morning before heading off for work, preparing in advance makes it easier to find the time to sit down together in the evening.

• Dinners in a Dash – For those nights when you didn’t plan ahead and you have no idea what to fix for supper, it’s a good idea to have ingredients and recipes on hand that can be prepared in 30 minutes or less.

Some basic ingredients to keep on hand might include frozen boneless skinless chicken breasts, fresh or frozen stir-fry vegetables, rice, onions and lettuce.

Ready-to-use ingredients can also be a real life saver. in meal planning and preparation, so that no one feels overburdened.

Even very young children can help plan meals, set the table and prepare simple items like salads. In addition to teaching valuable skills, involving children in meal preparation can help to take some of the stress off parents.

The facts are on the table, taking the time to sit down as a family and enjoy a healthy meal together will help children form positive attitudes about food and create fond memories that will last a lifetime.

The bottom line is to do what works for you. Whether you slow things down or plan ahead to make family meal time fit into your schedule, the benefits of eating together will last long after the meal ends.
Ask The Expert: Sandi Richard and Dr. Dianne Neumark-Sztainer
 Edmonton Journal: 18 Mar 2009: By Gen Handley

As a Food Network television host and an author of a nutrition book series, Sandi Richard understands the difficulties of eating healthy. But as a mother of seven children, she definitely knows the benefits – and challenges - of sitting down with the family to eat together.

“When I only had two kids, I was losing my mind,” she says laughing. “I was the queen of chicken fingers.” As both Richard’s career and family grew larger, she began to discover ways of having healthy, family meals in spite of different schedules and lack of time. She came up with a list of simple steps that would transform not only dinner time but the family’s health and its relationships.

Create a blank dinner list for the next week with five lines and sit down with the family to plan out what they’ll be eating during the next week. “It doesn’t take long and make sure you take suggestions from everyone,” Richard says. “And make sure you source where these recipes come from – it can be from your head or a cookbook.”
 
Next, make a master grocery list for the list of meals, regardless if you have some of the ingredients in the pantry or not. “No matter what, you’ll always have this list to look and when you go for groceries then you can see what you have and don’t have,” she says. “It’s a really handy reference to have.

Repeat this process for three weeks so you can rotate the weeks and not have to repeat the work again until you decide to add another week of plans to the rotation.

“Put the meal plan in a duotang or binder and place it somewhere near the recipes for easy access,” she suggests. “Trust me, this really works because the hardest part is thinking about what to cook – the pressure is 100 per cent off.”

On her Food Network show, Fixing Dinner, Richard has been successful with families of all types because it all comes down to one idea: keeping things simple.

“The old model doesn’t work anymore,” echoes Dr. Dianne Neumark-Sztainer, a professor at the School of Public Health at the University of Minnesota.

“But there are ways of making it happen.” Neumark-Sztainer believes that in order for family dinners to happen, all the members need to be not only flexible, but must place dinner time high up on the priority list so that they can have that time to gather around the table.

“I think it can be hard, but families just need to look at their schedules and what changes need to be made,” she explains. “It should be up there with music lessons or other extracurricular activities - it’s definitely worth thinking about.” I

n addition to organizing your time, Neumark-Sztainer says to take advantage of healthy foods that are not prepared entirely, but somewhat ready to eat. Pre-bagged salads and sandwiches are some options that are quick, easy and healthy. Both Richard and Neumark-Sztainer say there are some serious benefits to eating together as a family such as saving money, eating healthier, and also bringing the family unit a lot closer together.

“It takes such a burden off the person who normally cooks and this spreads to the rest of the family,” Richard says. With a lot of emphasis on ultra-healthy eating these days, Richard says we have lost focus of the big picture of eating balanced meals that include fresh fruits and vegetables, meat, poultry, and dairy products.

“If we know what we’re going to eat at the end of the day, instinctively our body balances out our nutritional intake until dinner time,” Richard says. “If you’re having cheesy lasagna for dinner, you’re not going to have it for lunch.”

Because of her busy schedule as a professor and a mother of four, Neumark-Sztainer knows exactly what it is like trying to balance the hectic routines of family and professional life. “I’m talking to you from my office, but I thinking about what I should be cooking right now,” she says chuckling.



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